I had been telepathically connected to her, tied as it were, after an effort on her part to pull me into her field forcefully at the point of her awakening. This was all done nonlocally. Anyone who says “twin flames” cannot force you to do anything you don’t want to do hasn’t experienced what I did. It was the equivalent of having someone charge into your inner life unbidden, unasked, and insinuating themselves into your life.
You might want to believe that these connections are divine and predetermined, or the result of a process where there are no mistakes. I can confirm that the wild card is human will and when it is exercised unconsciously we want to call it “fate” or the “will of God.” I can say that it is possible for these connections to be forged without our consent and against our hopes dreams or desires. It’s one of the things that hardly anyone will tell you because most feel so caught up in the engine of bliss that it can blind them to a world of faults. I think that the bliss keeps one from critically examining the phenomenon. Perhaps that is part of the point, a cosnic stab at unraveling our own personal errors in the hope of returning everything back to love. “Shush….all of those things are details, all that matters now is love. Now comes the age of forgiveness” it seems to say in the light of experiences such as the one I encountered in early 2011.
I am one who tries to make lemonaide out of those lemons, so at one point after dozens of preturbations and freakouts and contractions on her part, I ceased trying to help outwardly. I just stopped. I then began speaking to her higher self. Clearly, for as upside down as this was, it must surely be an effort on the part of her self in time and her soul (unbound by it) to get the memo on her own, in a manner of speaking. Sometimes it is with the aid of angels whose unsung roles are at work in the bakground.
I got the idea of just speaking to her soul instead to the self after realizing that she was always locked in one drama or another. I sat quietly on my bed before sleep and focused my attention on her and I began to tell her how beneficial bliss is for healing, in the hopes that she might inquire further into the topic on her own. When I was stripping paint from trim outside my house a few days later, my mind would again speak to her, and it would be all about the power of bliss. I would do what I could to slip the idea in through back channels instead of telling her directly. If I told her directly, I knew she would resist it because of her egoic innability to accept what I offered to her as truth. Instead, I made it so it would seem it occurred to her herself. It turned out that it worked very well.
After a week of my daily meditations and inward sugestions to her about the benefits of bliss, she started asking me about bliss out of the blue. There was no better confirmation that something was working than this. Here was a topic we had never spoken about at all and now she was suddenly asking me about it. I kept quiet about my inner suggestions and began to tell her about the benefit of bliss. She asked me in a morning text exchange that first week, “So do you feel bliss?” I replied that I did feel bliss. She asked how often. I explained that it tended to be nearly constant. She responded as if she couldn’t believe that a person could do that. I assured her it was possible, and that I had reached that in my work. She wondered how that was even possible. It was here that I knew that a transfer was possible because I did truly feel bliss most of the time and that she was becoming open to the idea that this state was possible for a person. It had taken years for me to come to such a place (feeling bliss in this way).
Those with whom we share these connections can feel what we feel to greater and lesser degrees, depending on how the personality is set up. In her case there was a lot of resistance and fear which got in the way sometimes of an aligning between portions of the self that can benefit from this type of work. When I would think of her she would feel it but she interpreted it as my wanting to be involved with someone else. She once messaged me explaining how she could feel my desire for another woman, how I would kiss her, even. At the time I let her think what she wanted to think because it served to drive her away from me (I was stalked for years by this person), but the truth was, it was her that I was thinking about. This helped me to see how we can receive information very clearly, but we can step in a distort with our personalities the meaning of the information. There was an edge of concern that she might distort what I was sending her.
Being able to do the work completelly on the etheric or subtle level because of how much ego was present in this case was a good outcome and was probably the ONLY way she was going to learn how. It was better to let her think it was all her own idea…and the thing was, it was because she had to first accept the idea from me as if it was her own. You can’t make them accept an idea but you can use your telepathic connection to plant seeds. Just keep planting them and don’t need to be the one who gets the accolades. Most growth happens this way which is the result of seeds having been planted in this way.
When she began asking me about this bliss, it was then a very simple matter to transfer to her the awareness the bliss field or bliss body to her telepathically while also using our verbal communication as one medium of focus and exchange for an event that was largely taking place internally or etherically.
I said that it was very easy to feel bliss and all she needed to do was to follow the steps that I spelled out to her which involved breathing and focusing only on the breath. I told her how to breathe and the breaths to take. I was breathing in bliss and breathing out bliss, transmitting outward as she breathed inward. Understand, I was not THE source for the bliss. I know that what I feel as bliss is just the awareness of a field of bliss that exists. I am a miner of gold that already exists, you see. I could hold my hands out etherically to her and have her respond because of the nature of our entanglement or connection. I didn’t need to say this was happening, and it it’s best that you do not mention it. Feel it, then transmit it directly through feeling. You become a lighthouse. Understand, this is only for things that WILL directly benefit them (not you). Anything less is manipulation and generates negative karma for yourself.
In the moments during my breathing suggestion, she very suddenly began feeling bliss run all through her. I knew at that moment that the door had opened for her and as long as she didn’t respond with fear, this state would grow and establish itself. It was so easy to do, really. She just had to be open to it Bliss is not what you do, it is what you are, so this is easy if the right things are in place. I explained that she had gotten it and that she could go back to it anytime that she wanted, another neat trick of suggestion, which forms the very useful belief that this state can he accessible at any time or in any place. From all accounts, it has been precisely this for her. It worked because it was all based in what is true. Bear in mind, it could have gone a different way, in which case I would need to have dropped the idea after a while. There is something important about not wanting it or needing it too much, or obsessing over it too much.
Sometimes it is easier for the egoically inclined to think they are doing all of this themselves, especially someone like the person I had to deal with for a time. Tricky? Maybe a little, but it wasn’t an effort to manipulate her but to provide for her something thst she sorely needed in her world as what I refer to as her role of “professional victim.” Its hard to know how dissempowering such a state of mind is to us when it is you who are buried in it. In fact, there is no use in even trying to explain it. It is easier to plant seeds in the hope that they will take root (all of this is done nonlocally).
I tell you this because you might be dealing with someone you are connected to that has been hard to deal with. This method or approach could be of some benefit. In order to feel it best, you have to feel it natively in your own skin first and then imagine whatever that state of mind is, being offered, not pushed, on the other over and over. Do this at various times during the day. Don’t be obsessive about it, treat it as a casual thought without a hope of an outcome. You do though, offer up the suggestion of its benefits as you feel them yourself (because through you they will feel it).
I later found out that gurus in India teach their students in this way by holding certain states in mind, which students will tend to pick up on in meditation. I thought how perfect.
In the Indian tradition they said what a great responsibility it was for the guru. I myself thought how easy all of this was, how this method made growth and healing much easier when I stopped trying to help outwardly and began working inwardly. Perhaps it can be a subtle way to help the other grow and heal. It is like osmosis.
~Nemasté
Waking The Infinite 
All kinds of helpful suggestions here; thank you! I talk with people all the time on the etheric plane, and over time I’ve grown to do it more selectively and carefully, taking care to not be selfish about anything, which, as you say, is then manipulation, which isn’t love or even caring. So I’m learning to let go of people in my mind – especially those whom I’ll likely not cross paths with again in this life – but to trust in my heart that All Is One and I lose nothing and gain everything by keeping an open heart! I always appreciate your posts when I catch them.
I find your writing much the same when I go reading—thoughtful, considered, insightful. I’m glad you stopped by!
A friend and healer once told me that if you tell someone something that would be beneficial for them to do for their healing, it is often possible for them to reflexively resist it, even if it’s “the thing” they ought to do. But this approach is catch-as-catch-can because while it is communicated through the subtle channels, the person needs to be ready to consider it. freewill is operative even in the subtle realm (which is a good thing on balance I think). I guess we are often trying to help, to make life better for other sentient beings since this tends to lead to realizing our creative potential spiritually or energetically.
I think we have more to learn about these connections, their true underlying nature. I find it interesting how, someone with whom we have had conflict with in a past life and have karma in common can result in our falling in love with them in a future life. Most of the people writing about twin flames write about it as though it has a deep underlying purpose. It feels that way absolutely but go to the lives lived and you see people killing each other, manipulation, betrayals, history is full of this (and may be necessary in order to learn what is good for us and not good for us—a multi-lifetime process of learning the important lessons in life). One friend who has good recall realized her “twin” had murdered her a number of times, and all that energy gets bundled into something completely different but still having this underlying tension when put into a future lifetime. It’s like how investment professionals bundle toxic assets and turn them into an investment vehicle (derivatives).”Honey, that stock you bought last month has gone up a LOT! It must be something really good!” It looks good to us but we really don’t know it’s underlying or fundamental nature. Why? Is it because the universe is neutral that we can get polarized into intense attraction to the people who have hurt us the most, that energy is energy and we can wind up getting pulled in a completely different direction, one which for me is counterintuitive? It LOOKS different, but given time, will begin to show its underlying nature to those who are willing to examine it. I’m not sure if there is a purpose to them as nearly all never manifest as enduring relationships-they have the shadow of an old pattern not yet healed in them. My twin would say how she loved me with every fiber of her being and then would spread absolute lies about me and seek to destroy me (slander defamation). It had all happened before with my ex, which was a blind-side, too. What? How is any of this love? I learned to effect change in more subtle ways and to walk away from something that resisted change in any direct way. Perhaps in time. So much is still a mystery. That is, people are a mystery. However, our innermost patterns become the attractants for us that go to make up so much of our desires, the most potent ones, and some (not all) can be built off of these “derivatives” or toxic assets sometimes…so buyer beware…or be wise.
You are a generative conversationalist! That’s a really interesting thought, the accumulation of passion when two fields fuse, and how it could play out either way across lifetimes. I don’t recall past lives to know much about this, but I consider that if All is ultimately One, then your life is my life also, and we have lived and will live all lives. If that were the case, it’s no wonder why we are compartmentalized into individual brains! What overload otherwise!!! Is God overwhelmed? haha. Every little thing in its own bubble of consciousness. You gave me a great idea, though, because ego is a HUGE barrier sometimes between people, to talk less and pray into the heart and “out” to the unified field more, to help those whom I feel need the most help but keep thick walls of self-deception.
Different subject here, but you can relate as you’re working on books. I just published my own book and can count the sales on two hands – partly for lack of publicity and marketing, and partly because those whom I have approached fall into one of three categories: 1) those who are simply not ready for it; 2) those who are capable of cognating it but still fight with their ego; and 3) those who are ready and open. I was reading a book similar to mine and was intrigued that she got some one-star reviews at Amazon. I read those reviews to try and not make the same mistakes that this author made, but I realized that they were not conscious of the fact that they were projecting their own life situations onto the book (mothers of children with special needs) and then blaming her book for being “too depressing, so depressing that they had to put the book down.” So they were blaming this woman’s book for triggering them, and it was a well-written and researched book. I took this up with a psychotherapist-friend who said people tell all about themselves and where they are developmentally according to how they receive “help.” The open-hearted, empathetic and truly ready will receive it warmly, outside of judgment; whereas, the rest will judge it as they judge themselves. Interesting. Similar to what you’re talking about…trying to find ways to get through to people…but like all learning experiences, it’s always at our own pace. We can proffer what we do and hope for the best. It’s the best that we can do! ❤ Take care.
Is being a “generative conversationalist” a nice way of saying I wander a bit in my conversations?? If so, I own it (note to self: look up meaning of “generative conversationalist”!!
You know, related to what you said, a psychic friend explained to me that when you really see a person, most often done through something like psychic reading or sinilar routes, the next time you see that person or speak with them, they will tend to go on about what it is that you saw in them—a neat way of confirming what it was you saw as correct. So if you had a therapist like my friend read a client, they could open up to them more. I have had this happen a number of times since my friend to me about it. It’s as if a part of them knows that you know, but they aren’t completely aware that they can feel that you saw or read them.
🙂 I simply meant that your words are not just bubbles that pop. They are more like seeds that spread in various directions, giving the reader more to look at. It’s a good thing! That’s the most amazing truth, what you’re talking about. It’s what I was writing about when I wrote this little poemlet a year or so back that surfaced a few days ago.
Nocturne
Sometimes, a beautiful relationship
evolves without a spoken word, revolves
around magnetic pulls and subtle slips
between the worlds, and all but dreams dissolve
when eyes resign to close, and what unfolds
from there is safely secreted away
so silent-knowingly, the heart that holds
the key will keep it lovingly; so stay
a while, my friend, unwinding in this mind;
and let us fly unfettered, unconfined.
PS. I love that book by Tolle, and I am far too bashful for Oprah. 🙂 Unfortunately, it’s difficult to market without being more public. My book is Healing Home: Especially for Mothers of Children With Special Needs. It’s only at Amazon, self-published. Enjoy your weekend!
Lovely poem. It reminds me of Peter Gabriel’s “Secret World” I will look for your book!
I remember reading an interview with an author. He had written this book and had been hawking them to local bookstores, but he had only sold a few. Then an assistant to Oprah was given the book and she gave it to Oprah who in turn booked the author whose book The Power of Now was written by Tolle.
I took a course on online marketing and he coach has a daughter who is an author who is using his marketing knowledge to self publish her books. It’s all about reach and eyes on screens.
Sorry for so many misspellings in my initial reply: I was doing it from my phone and mercy sakes, those fingers don’t land neatly on the right keys sometimes,!
By the way, what is the name of your book and where is it sold? Inquiring minds!
Good reminder about talking to someone’s higher self when their human ears won’t listen. Learned about this years ago but haven’t put it into practice lately, but I need to. Synchronicity!
I think we do it a lot without realizing it…so doing it with a little more intention could be a good thing. Hope it helps.